Isaac Weinhausen Isaac Weinhausen on
I witnessed this happen on multiple occasions, during talks, at meetups, and online in Slack. You have to watch so carefully what you say, that the fun kinda gets lost.

Respectfully, it sounds like you're centering the fun *for you* over the harm/hurt that can be done to the marginalized, even by well-intentioned people.


𝖆𝖉𝖗𝖎𝖊𝖓𝖓𝖊, Summer Anne Burton, Kelly McStay, and 4 others
gRegor Morrill gRegor Morrill
Being corrected may not feel comfortable and maybe you (general you) aren't used to thinking so closely about what you say, but these discomforts reflect our privilege and pale in comparison to the harm/hurt done to marginalized.