I've tweaked my site a bit. In the sidebar you'll notice I've added “shall we chat?”, a simple module that lets you chat with me on IM. It doesn't require any account, just select a name for yourself and say hello (if it says I'm online, of course). I've also put “add to del.icio.us” links at the bottom of my posts so you can socially bookmark them. You do use del.icio.us, right?
PS - I'm still getting Bloglines.com hits on my xanga rss feed. If you're a subscriber to that, you should use this feed instead.